Becoming SexMate
Find the missing link in your intimate life.
A private two-hour consultation and assessment for couples who feel they have hit a dead end in the bedroom, built on body knowledge and physiotherapy.
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Many couples know intimacy can be better but do not know what to try next. You will be met with respect, privacy and practical answers, not judgement.
Is this for you?
For couples who want to understand each other’s bodies and enjoy a closer intimate life.
How the session works
- A two-hour session for you both
- An assessment of what may be holding you back
- Body knowledge and physiotherapy guidance
- Clear next steps for your relationship
The problem
Why Becoming SexMate exists
Many of the couples who struggle with intimacy in marriage are people of faith with strong values. They waited until marriage and expected intimacy to come naturally. For many, something is still missing, and they do not know where to turn.
Becoming SexMate helps couples find the missing link unique to their relationship, with body knowledge and physiotherapy explained in the simplest terms by a Christian pelvic floor physiotherapist.
Our aim is stronger, more stable marriages, where couples enjoy the intimacy they were made for.
Partnerships
Sponsor a couple
Partner with Thewomanhealthphysio to sponsor a Becoming SexMate session for a Christian couple and help strengthen marriages. Sponsors are appreciated as partners on our website and social media, or can stay anonymous. If you would like a particular couple to benefit, tell us on WhatsApp after payment.
Client stories
What clients have shared
Anonymised messages from clients.

Individual experiences and timelines vary.
Care with
Dr Faith Duncan-Shotunde
Dr Faith explains what is happening in your bodies in the simplest terms, so you can understand each other and take practical steps together, with no sex toys or complicated techniques.
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Questions you may have
Do we both need to attend?
Yes. Becoming SexMate is designed for couples, and the fee covers both partners.
How long is the session?
The consultation and assessment session lasts about two hours.
How do we book?
Book directly on Selar. After payment, Selar provides the practice contact and onboarding instructions. Please review the Selar terms before you pay; all sales are final.
